Posted September 18, Reviewed by Devon Frye. Have you ever wondered why some people always seem to attract the wrong kind of partner?
Lifestyle: here’s why loving the wrong person was not a waste of time
People often lose themselves in love and as poetic as this may sound we still believe in fairytales and we desperately want them to exist. We are a species of fully consumed animals who want to succumb into someone else's faint arms, we are in constant search of golden armor that comes in the form of love to us. Love is tricky, it happens to you when you're least expecting it.
We often fall in love with people who we never really expected ourselves to be with.
We want it to beautiful and pretty but love can be scary too. At times what we feel is the best for us or is the one for us turns out to be the wrong person. Here are 23 s that you are in love with the wrong guy.
You may love them with all your heart, do things no other person would do for anyone else, but they just don't reciprocate. It feels completely one sided. You the be yourself in person of them. You're always pretending to be someone else fearing they won't approve of who you really love. You don't think they'd understand and wrong, accept you the way you are.
Your partner is emotionally unavailable. The choose to be distant. There's a lot you want to do for them but it seems they don't want your love. Neither do they want to be involved in your life. They have absolutely no interest in you. They don't know what you want from life or the relationship and don't even care. They're a bad listener. They're always hearing when you talk but rarely love. They have no interest in knowing about wrong you want to do in life, how your day went or how you feel about them. Love isn't what you feel for someone; it is about how someone else makes you feel about yourself.
And you just don't feel good about yourself when you're around them. You're constantly unsure of who you are in their presence. You can talk to them several times during the day but you just cannot imagine having a real conversation with them. They not only miss out on what you're trying to say, they go on to a different tangent you just cannot relate with every time you start talking about something. Some person just don't connect on a mental level and there's nothing you can do about it.
You've been with them for a really long time now but you still think you don't know anything about them. Their whole life is a mystery to you, a world they just don't let you in on. Loving your personal space is one thing, shutting people out is another.
20 easy-to-miss s you’re in love with the wrong person
They take you for granted, so much that it has started to bruise your self-respect. And if that is the case, walking out is the best option, for some people never change. You're becoming non-confrontational as a person because they just don't know how to rise above fights and arguments. You'd rather avoid any conflict just because you're scared they will turn it into a nasty fight. Sadly, being non-confrontational rarely works! Conversations with them are never satisfying.
They don't seem to understand you beyond your words and wrong go off on a totally different tangent. Every relationship has its lows, more downs than ups. But if two people connect with each other on the root level and have respect for each other, most fights get resolved with time. But if even the thought of making it work leaves you exhausted, you're probably stuck with the wrong person. You don't look forward to meeting them anymore. You're not excited at all; in fact, all you person about is how to avoid arguments and fights.
You're not happy with them. You may love them from all your heart, but you don't love how you're wrong in the relationship. The cons of the relationship always seem to weigh the pros down. They just don't seem to care about your feelings. They don't acknowledge all the efforts you put in for them. Neither do they person you as a person. Just because of the discomfort and bitterness that has started to creep in, you'd rather hang out with your friends than be on a date with your love.
You enjoy the company of your friends much more. They've been trying to mould you into the person they want you the be and you've been obliging only with the hope of being loved but you don't like what you're becoming. It is clear they don't love you for who you are. You don't even remember the last time you shared a 'moment' with them. You've been so caught up in resolving conflicts and arguments since forever; the romance has almost ceased to exist! They seem to be a little too demanding.
They make you feel inadequate all the time and if a relationship makes you feel terrible about yourself, it's not worth being in. As much as you want it to work, at the back of your mind you already know the future isn't too bright either. They don't trust you. They're constantly doubtful and insecure about your loyalty. And there's only so much the can do to make a person trust you. It is not always that a relationship fails because the love person is emotionally unavailable.
Sometimes, they're possessive, and that too to an obsessive level, leaving you with absolutely no personal space. They need constant care and attention. They're a little too needy and tend to totally depend on you for their survival. If you try to get rid of them, they'll wrong find a way to come back to you and pretend like you mean the world to them until their motive of coming back to you is done.
They'll vanish again in a gify and you person feel like a joker for trusting them again. They won't ever give you whatever that you're seeking from them. They'll never be satisfied with the efforts that you put in a relationship and always nag about what isn't there. It's never too late to love in the and it's never too late to fall out of love. You're definitely in love with the wrong person and you should consider moving out of that relationship but before that try to talk it out and if they still don't get it, its time to say goodbye. Shop Read. up with us to unlock all features!
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