I know that the world would have you to believe that sex without commitment, is a liberating experience. That there are no after psychological after affects whatsoever. That you can freely give your vagina to any and every man that you want to, and somehow this should make you feel empowered.
The advisable things to say and do when a man or woman's interest in you is expressly sexual and nothing more.
Because there seems to be a willingness on the part of everyone [women, especially] to hear a clear expression of intent when someone starts hovering over their commitment, it's becoming commoner by the day to see people sex up about their real interests even when these do not really toe the line of the traditional relationship that society is familiar with.
So, while a guy's interest in a babe would 'normally' be to woo her, date her, get her into a relationship with him and do relationship things with the intention of getting married somewhere down the line, things are not very much the same anymore.
While there are still relationships like this, we're seeing more people being just content to do all these relationship things, including sex, without any intention to be committed to each other in any way, let alone marry. However, this only works best when both the guy and the babe are on the same about the whole thing from the onset.
We all know it works this way more times than it does the other. So, when a guy, spurred by the desire of women for complete honesty of intentions nobly asks you for a purely sexual relationship, what should your response be?
I’m a woman, take me to the site for women!
And that's just fine. If you don't want such affairs, of course the answer will have to be an unequivocal no.
Keeping him close might really not be healthy for your decision. Tell him that your refusal in casual sex is because you are not interested at all, regardless of the relationship status. Whether you're dating or not, you don't want sex. Welcome to the Pulse Community!
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Authors: Ayoola Adetayo. July 18, PM. Here's what to do when someone says they want just sex from you, no commitment [Credit: Getty Images].
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